Company

In my last post we discussed the importance of love. However not everyone deserves the love you give, like the love towards your family or close friends, even though I believe everyone deserves love. On that note, part of self-love is self-perseveration: my pastor said last Sunday that most of us start having self-perseveration from fears or potential dangers when we are young. (Understanding cause and effect in life). Yet persevering your energy isn't a common practice, during covid most of us was learning self-care and being consistent with it as well. Furthermore, our energies and our hearts and our minds should be treated as most valuable. Nonetheless some of us are abusive with those aspects and feel drain because we are not with the right groups, or we use our energies without end and no recouperation.

In the bible it states: Proverbs 22:23-24 (NIV)

"Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered, or may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared."

Overall meaning is that the company you have is very important, because whether you like or not people's attitudes or spirits rub off. So, it is your job to cleanse and purify your beautiful and sacred energy. On another note, on TikTok we see a lot of "Red flags" to look out for. However, what might be toxic to one person I may actually need to grow as person. We all sow seeds and bear fruit, so some fruit people are allergic to. (Like pineapple) However, I can I have it and it's beneficial as well, so it will take self-examination and trust to pick the fruit or company that will make you thrive. It is going to take blood, sweat and tears but once you find your tribe or 4lifers you will never regret it.

In the words of Meilin Lee - Turning Red "Besties Assemble" Btw I am the Mei Mei of the group.